That's it. No gimmicks, no special hairstyle, no fancy make-up, and no exercise program. If you want to find a genuine, friendly, kind, honorable man you just need to know you're a catch.
You need to be a strong woman of God who recognizes that she is a unique and beautiful person! I mean, think about who you are attracted to. Are you attracted to the guy who has no confidence and constantly puts himself down or the guy who is charismatic, confident, and likeable. (I would go for the second one...) And guys are the same way! Good guys do not want to date a girl who sees herself as worthless. They want to be with someone who loves themselves and doesn't settle! It doesn't matter if you have been single your entire life, you need to believe that a man should be honored to date you. Psalm 139:14 "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made." You are a beautiful, unique creation of God and you need to give yourself some credit!
If you start to focus on how you have been single for a long time and drain your confidence, your standards will go down. Is the confident girl ever the one who is dating a jerk? Nope. She realizes that she is worth more than how those men would treat her. However, if you are wallowing in loneliness you're going to jump for the first guy who texts you. And usually those types of relationships lead to a lot of regret.
So, I urge you to know you're special! If you start thinking that way, not only will you feel better about yourself, but guys are going to notice! (If they don't I have a money back guarantee on this advice. (; ) Once men realize you're no longer going to settle, they will step their game up! So, there may be a lot of fish in the sea, but you're a catch!







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